Saturday, October 11, 2025

Daniel Spray aka Mesquite Hugger

In Loving Memory of Daniel Bruce Spray

August 28, 1968 – October 6, 2025



With deep sorrow and aching hearts, we share the sudden and unexpected passing of Daniel Bruce Spray, who left this world on October 6, 2025, at the age of 57.
Daniel was a kind, generous soul whose presence brought warmth, encouragement, and quiet strength to everyone he met. He had a deep love for words — especially poetry — and used them not only to express himself but to inspire others. Whether through a thoughtful line, a handwritten note, or a quiet conversation over coffee, Daniel knew how to make people feel seen. His hugs melted your heart while also giving you strength that you weren’t aware you had. 
Born on August 28, 1968, Daniel devoted much of his life to educating and guiding others. He began his career as an English teacher, where he shared his love of language and learning with countless students. Later, he became a trainer, bringing the same passion and care to helping adults learn so they could grow in their career and confidence. No matter the role, Daniel believed deeply in the potential of people — and he never hesitated to help someone along their path.
Daniel was known for his love of his family, friends, furbabies, nature, bikes and scooters, finding joy in the simple pleasure of a ride. He could often be found with a coffee in hand, sharing stories, laughter, and meaningful fellowship with his friends. His community meant everything to him, and he gave freely of his time, energy, and heart.
We will all remember Daniel as someone who was always willing to lend a hand, listen with compassion, and lift others up without judgment or asking for anything in return. He had the best heart — generous, steady, and true.
Daniel is survived by his adoring wife, Toni Spray, his kid, Brittany Hays, his mother, Vickie Spray & his brother Dustin Spray; his bonus mom, Barb Spray; his fur children, Kylie, Mattie, Chacho, Phoebe, Doug, and Hoozie; his brother in-law Bryan Hays, sister in-law Amber Hays; his Niece and Nephews, Sadie, Riley, and Chuck Hays; along with the many family & friends whose lives he touched over the years and who touched his in return. 
A celebration of Daniel’s life will be held on Saturday, October 11th at 1 p.m. at the Lubbock Memorial Arboretum, with reception to follow at the LUHCA Ice House.  In honor of his spirit, those wishing to remember him are encouraged to share a poem, a memory, take a quiet ride, or simply offer a helping hand to someone in need — just as Daniel so often did. “Be the change you want to see in the world.”
He leaves behind a legacy of kindness, wisdom, and quiet strength. Though he is gone far too soon, the love he gave and the lives he touched will continue to ripple outward for years to come.

In lieu of flowers and gifts, donations in his honor can be made to Bikes Together Denver, a community outreach in Denver that spoke to Daniel's heart. https://mtyc.co/itue1


Tuesday, July 1, 2025

I emailed my representative today


and asked him to vote no on President Trump's signature domestic policy bill.

an appropriate sky for today

The senate has already passed the bill.

I grew up believing in a country that is by the people and for the people - all of the people, and I fear the cuts to Medicaid, cuts to clean energy programs, and cuts to food assistance will just lead to more misery and more division. In the past months we have seen due process and civil rights stripped from many of our citizens and from many who've been legally pursuing citizenship in our country for years.

I only see this bill creating more desperation, hatred, and fear.

This administration has ostracized our country from much of the world in a very short period of time. This is not a political or a religious issue. This is an issue of simple human decency.

This bill does not treat others as we would like to be treated.

I pray that you are well and that we can all be good neighbors.
 

Friday, June 13, 2025

The more things change...a "No Kings Day" Reboot

...the more they stay the same. 


On November 10, 2016, I published these words on the Mesquite Hugger blog:


Hugging Mesquite in the shadow of a New President

Honestly, I am stunned.

Donald Trump has been a cartoon character in my peripheral vision for most of my life. I've known that he was an obnoxious and very shady businessman, but I've paid little attention to him.

And now, at a pivotal time in world and environmental history, he is my president.

Throughout the [2016] campaign he has spouted outrageous and hateful things about so many things that are core to my beliefs and about people I love dearly.

Yes, I am an environmentalist, but I am not that because of a desire to save whales and birds and fresh air. I am that because I believe in and want to make things better for people - all people.

Both as a man and a Christian, I struggle to imagine living any other way. So having a president who wants to deport, exclude, subjugate, and isolate others is beyond disturbing. And having a president who wants to extract every last resource from our planet and leave it a smoking husk is just as disturbing.

So, I am looking at a man who has vowed to dissolve the EPA and has mocked those who are working to save a planet that has been battered and damaged by humanity blindly plowing forward with no regard to the consequences.

And I am living in a country where roughly half of the people embrace and regard this man as a hero.

So, what's a Mesquite Hugger to do? Embrace the hatred? Seek common ground?

I started this blog to offer others encouragement, optimism, and the tools to make positive changes.

So, now I am looking for encouragement, optimism, and a few tools to make a positive change.

May we find some common ground and some hope. Failing that, may we find the strength and wisdom to pursue the best path for all.

Honestly, it's now 2025, and I'm still stunned.

But that's not a terrible thing. I've needed a good slap.

Over the last 8 years or so I've fallen into a very dull despair.

Mesquite Hugger was a place of hope and encouragement for doing better, living better, and inviting others to do the same. It was a place to encourage people to love, respect, and serve each other for the common good.

These days, Mesquite Hugger is a ho-hum place to share photos of birds, bikes, and prairie dogs.

The reason for that is simple. I gave up.

I traded the dream of inspiring and encouraging others for the resignation of just getting by and staying afloat I settled in for a gray monotony.

But I'm not ready to live under a Trumpian authoritarian regime and I'm not ready to see the country I grew up loving turn into a hate-filled playground for the uber wealthy.

I started this blog to offer others encouragement, optimism, and the tools to make positive changes.

So, please keep an eye on this space to find encouragement, optimism, and the tools to make positive changes.

As always, thanks for reading this! I pray you are well and that you have hope despite the times!

Friday, May 23, 2025

Random May Pics - Lubbock, Texas (Inside Loop 289)

Chatman Hill, East 24th Street,15 May 2025






Buddy Holly Park, 13 May 2025






Misc Lubbock







Thanks for stopping by! May you be well and continually better, friends.

 

Tuesday, April 22, 2025

Earth Day 2025

 This is a tough one.


Sunrise, pickups, and asphalt in Lubbock this morning

Buddy Holly Park this week

Grackles in Garbage at Buddy Holly Park


Our president's relationship with the climate

Learn more here (before it is disappeared)

I pray you are well and working for better!